How to Attract a Man and Make Him Want You

Who doesn’t like attention, adoration, pampering, and a spark in a relationship from the man? Every woman wants to get adored by the man of her dream. However, in reality, the spark starts fading in the relationship after a few months. It’s because a man stops doing things he was used to doing at the start of the relationship. Honestly, that kills a relationship.

Fortunately, I have good news for people who think they are. According to the experts, some men are firm believers in long-term spark and lusting. But to reach this stage in a relationship, you will have to make conscious efforts to make him always want you. If you know your man entirely trusts you and craves you, then no one steals your man or harms your relationship.

We feel you, girl; that’s why we have listed the most practical tips to show you how to attract a man and make him want you. Let me warn you first if you start implementing these tips, and he may not be able to leave your side for the rest of his life.

Tips of Attract a Man

  1. Act confident

Not only men but all of us are attracted to confident people who are sure of their selves. So stop doubting yourself. For example, it’s okay to be a little goofy if that’s your personality; own it with complete confidence. Your confidence attracts the right guy.

  • Being confident allows you to enjoy your life without having any guilt. Whether it’s playing video games, dancing, or just reading. Enjoy yourself every minute, and don’t worry about looking cool.
  • Try to be confident but not overconfident. Respect other person feeling; don’t start arguments about your taste and opinions with others. The right confidence level helps you to state your views without any shame.

  1. Be kind

Guys like to be around kind and caring girls. When he sees your affectionate behavior towards others, he will know he wants to be around you. Always show love and compassion towards your family and friends; it will attract a guy and give you mental peace.

  • Some small gestures like arriving on time, holding the door open, giving a light smile to the passerby, and asking a friend how their day shows kindness.
  • Be patient and understanding when you are dealing with others. If your friends crack at you because of your rough day, accept their apology.

  1. Be open to new experiences.

Give company to your guy so he can do things he wants while with you. It’s expected that we are attracted to the person who is agreeable to enjoying new experiences in life. Start enjoying the company of your partner, and he will surely start doing things you like. Enjoy different movies, foods, and experiences.

If he is willing to enjoy some unusual things, he will appreciate someone trying to get involved in it. For example, if he has an odd collection, ask them about it instead of raising an eyebrow.

  1. Call him by cute names.

It’s sexy to hear your name across your partner’s lips. Whenever you are talking, mention his name or whatever you are used to calling him. But avoid calling it too often. You need to know how to balance it.

While lovemaking, call his name and see the way he turns on.

  1. Compliment him

Just like we want to be desired, a man also likes feeling appreciated or enjoyed. Make sure to respect him and compliment him often. Besides, keep the compliments from his looks.

Tell your partner how you like when he does something for you and appreciates him for dealing with a situation in a specific way. Such things make your lover more attracted to you. He will start doing things that you like and makes your love deeper. He will try to make you happy even when you are with him.

  1. Touch him unexpectedly

An unexpected touch has a unique and surprising feeling. For example, reaching his pockets to take a key can stimulate his nerve endings and create a special connection when he least expects it. He will start missing and craving for you when you are not with him.

  1. Small changes have a significant impact.

Make small changes in your appearance and lifestyle. Minor changes can make your partner more attentive toward you. He will start noticing you even more. However, the main point is that making a change is what he will love to see in you.

Make a change that differs from your daily look so he will catch it instantly. It can be anything like wearing a beautiful dress, good lipstick, a new haircut, or maybe a new hairstyle. These small changes make a big difference in getting your partner’s attention.

  1. Keep him guessing

Another clever trick to make him crave you is not telling you everything about your life. Let him guess your likes and dislikes and other secrets. If he is serious about you and loves you, he will be willing to know more about you.

  1. Be positive

Generally, people are attracted to a positive mindset people. Try focusing on the little positive things that can brighten your bad day, like having an exciting conversation about the meal. If you ate trying to make yourself positive, the people around you would also pick your positive energy.

It takes some effort to have a positive mindset. Avoiding negativity and taking positive thoughts as a new way to look at things. For example; when you think; “I am late for the office, I will get into trouble.” It’s a good thing that you are not late every day. It will not be a big trouble.

  1. Interesting conversations

Refrain from having repetitive and boring conversations. If the conversation is getting boring, then change the topic. Try avoiding awkward small talk as much as you can. Ask interesting questions to keep the conversation going. When they are talking about their favorite book, tell them you like that or ask them why they love it.

You can always ask him about his favorite things, like what he likes and his favorite movie.

  1. Smile while making an eye contact

Smiling is a perfect way to do a little teasing. Keep a smile during your conversation. Laugh a little at his jokes and smile when he says something interesting and sweet. Smiling and eye contact works perfectly. Make eye contact for a few seconds and then glance away.

  1. Give him space

A guy needs his alone time where he can feel he is free to be himself. Respect his space and have some of your activities and interests. Let him know you respect his hobbies, friends, and interests. When a person sees an independent woman, he wants her more.

For example, if he asks you suddenly to have a night out while you have your plans, wait to cancel it. It can make him worry that you are so focused on him that you are dropping everything. Make plans with him for the next night. It will show him you love him instead of rejecting how excited you are to make plans for the next day.

Bonus Tip: Take him down the memory

Include some good memories of you living together in the conversations. Remind them the day you fell for them, what attracted you to him, and so on. It rebuilds the love memories that you two experienced together.

Remembering the old good things makes him love you more. The above mentioned tips will help you know how to attract a man and make him want you.

End Words

All of these tips make your man more interested in you. He will keep pampering you the way he does in the initial years of the relationship. He will always want you the way you have desired for. Ensure you follow the tips above on attracting a man and making him like you.

FAQ’s

  • What makes a man fall in love?

Empathy, sexual compatibility, emotional connection, and physical attraction are the main things that make a man attractive to women.

  • What keeps a man interested?

If you want to keep your man interested, try exploring new things. It will help revitalize and reconnect the relationship. Exploring new places and experiencing things by getting out of the comfort zone makes an irreplaceable and strong bond of love and respect for each other.

  • I am shy and introverted; should I try flirting with him even when I am uncomfortable?

Even if you love someone, you shouldn’t try something that makes you uncomfortable. Establish a solid friendship bond first and see if he is the Mr. Right for you. If that person knows you and wants to have a serious relationship, he will appreciate these qualities, and there will be no need to be overly flirty.

  • How to attract a man and make him want you?

To attract a man, you need to make a few changes in yourself that every person adores. Being kind, confident, positive, and attractive makes the other person loves you. Improve your lifestyle, show him appreciation, and give him his time. These things all work together to attract your Mr. perfect towards you.

R Sehar

R Sehar

I am a licensed therapist and life coach who specializes in relationships. I help strong, empowered women develop healthy, fulfilling relationships with themselves and those around them. My clients often struggle with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression & addiction. I work with them to create a healthier mindset and lifestyle that supports their worthiness for love.

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